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Software lets parents monitor kids' calls

By Stefanie Olsen
Staff Writer, CNET News.com
Published: July 10, 2007 4:00 AM PDT
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In March, 15-year-old Joshua Brumfield got a shiny new BlackBerry Pearl, and his parents got a new way to watch out for their son.

The Brumfields signed up to be early users of Radar, software designed to let parents monitor incoming calls on their child's mobile phone. Anytime Joshua gets a call from someone not on a call list approved by his parents, they will receive a real-time text alert on their cell phone or online.

For example, during the first two days on the phone, Joshua got six calls from a stranger within a few hours--and the Brumfields got six text alerts. So they asked Joshua about the calls, and he told them they were from a man looking for his ex-girlfriend who didn't believe that her number had changed. The stranger had grown more aggressive with each call, thinking that Joshua was a new boyfriend.

"Radar really helped us see this was definitely a problem, one our son wouldn't have said anything about," said Lisa Brumfield, a Laguna Hills, Calif., mother of three boys. Joshua's father called the man to straighten out the situation.

"A lot of what was happening online is moving to the cell phone--cyberbullying and harassment--and most of its use is unmonitored."
--Bob Lotter, founder,
EAgency Systems

The Brumfields were among the first adopters of Radar, which was released this spring by Newport Beach, Calif.-based security company EAgency Systems. Initially, the Radar software, which costs about $10 a month on top of a wireless plan, has worked only with BlackBerry devices and other smart phones, a factor that has limited growth. But according to Bob Lotter, the company's founder, Radar is poised for wider distribution through deals with Motorola and Verizon Wireless.

The company is working through a certification process with Motorola so that the software will work with Razr phones. (A Motorola representative didn't immediately return a call for comment.) Lotter also said the company is in talks with Verizon Wireless, which has a subscriber base of more than 60 million. Verizon Wireless representative Jeffrey Nelson said he couldn't comment on any potential relationship with EAgency.

A few hundred people have subscribed to Radar so far, Lotter said.

Still, Radar could mark a shift toward greater monitoring by parents through cell phones, much the way it happened on the Web years ago. As more kids live their lives on mobile devices--text messaging, sending photos, scheduling school assignments, surfing the Web and calling their social circle--some parents are using tracking software to protect them from predators or bullies, or to simply stay connected.

In the last year, several companies have introduced mobile technology that let parents track their kids, primarily between the ages of 8 and 15. Disney, for example, last year started selling a phone service called Disney Mobile, which lets parents set time parameters on their kids' cell phone usage and track the location of their handsets using GPS, among other features. In 2006, Verizon also started selling a service called Chaperone, which for $10 a month lets parents use the phone's embedded GPS chip to locate the cell phone (and presumably the kid). For another $10 a month, Verizon also sells "geo-fencing," a service that lets parents set geographic barriers, or zones, within which their child can use the phone during prescribed times and places, such as within 10 yards of the school yard on weekdays.

The wireless carriers don't break out adoption rates for these services, but Verizon's Nelson called it a niche market.

"This is a great feature for a pretty finite group of consumers. It's not a giant mass market," Nelson said.

Researchers say that tweens are among the fastest growing segments of the cell phone population. Roughly 12 percent of U.S. children ages 8 to 9 have cell phones, and 24 percent of kids ages 10 to 11 have cell phones, according to a February survey from market research firm JupiterResearch.

Lotter, who founded EAgency five years ago to make the mobile management software Nice Office, developed Radar as a way to deal with the issues parents face in a mobile-phone culture. He's particularly concerned with the threat of predators using cell phones to get at kids age 8 to 14.

"A lot of what was happening online is moving to the cell phone--cyberbullying and harassment--and most of its use is unmonitored. We wanted to help solve those issues," he said.

His company developed Web-based software that lets parents log onto a secure site, called Mymobilewatchdog.com, to manage their account. Once a parent signs up for the monthly service, Radar will download the software wirelessly to a compatible phone. The parent then goes online to set up a child's friends and family call list, and can log back on anytime to see a record of all calls (numbers and duration), full text messages, and soon, MMS picture messages, which have been sent to the Radar-installed phone.

And if anyone who's not on that approved list tries to call or text-message the child's phone, Radar sends a real-time alert to the parent's phone, regardless of his or her carrier or hardware. Parents can also see a copy of the text message on their phone, or see which numbers have called the phone.

For example, Lisa Brumfield got a text message last Saturday at 2 a.m. warning her that a stranger had just called Joshua, who was spending the night at a friend's house. She asked him about it the following morning. "Every time I get an alert of an unusual phone call, I ask him about it. This turned out to be a wrong number," she said.

Joshua is well aware that the software is installed on his BlackBerry--the Radar logo is displayed on the phone--and he doesn't mind, he said. But privacy advocates warn that this kind of monitoring can erode trust between parent and child.

"Kids' privacy rights are by custom and tradition, like respecting closed doors and journals," said Marc Rotenberg, executive director of the Washington-based privacy group Electronic Privacy Information Center. "Constant surveillance of your kids or secret surveillance of your kids may not be the best way to build trust, and that's something parents need to consider."

He added that clever kids will often find a way around tracking software. For example, youngsters have been known to use Web proxies to work around filters installed in school computer labs. Rotenberg said that he's also heard of kids using aluminum foil to disable GPS locators on the cell phone.

Still, Lotter is hoping that Radar will be used by law enforcement agencies to catch and convict predators. He said that the tamper-proof data-retention system his company has built creates a record of evidence that could be admissible in a court of law. "We operate on the idea that long before something bad happens to a child, there's a chain of communication and we want to intervene early on that chain."

 
Correction: EAgency Systems founder Bob Lotter's name was misspelled in an earlier version of this story.

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Wow!
Parents buying kids Blackberry Pearls?
My parents sucked.
J/K
That's why my parents didn't suck and anyone who buys their kid
one is a Pop-Tart?
Posted by sciontcya (643 comments )
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heh heh
Were I a kid now, my parents probably wouldn't let me have a pager. (Remember pagers?) Now I'd have to justify the device and the monthly data package costs with my wife. And she'd want one, too.

Anyhow, I like the idea of these technologies, especially if your child is aware of them. Do the deal correctly and your child will see you as backing them up, not spying on them. I'll give my daughter technology early -- she's 3 and has been emailing family for years for her own email account. (Only lately is it actual words, but the family's been replying back to her random-keypress-emails for years.)

I think technology in the hands of kids is important, and I like the idea of intelligent technology for parents to help protect the child and provide course-correction before a simple misbehavior becomes a problem.
Posted by TV James (680 comments )
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What a great idea for lazy parents
Another lame piece of tech to replace the parents duty to actually be parents.
Posted by qwerty75 (1164 comments )
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are you kidding?
What are you advocating? Regularly taking the device from junior and looking at the call list and saved messages?

In the example given above, the parents were able to step in and quickly help the child with a situation entire not of their own doing but where they might not have otherwise come to mom and dad for assistance.

On the case of a child involved in something they shouldn't, they'd probably remove the evidence before the parent could get the phone back.

I think you're really misguided for suggesting these technologies are for parents who are neglecting their parental duties. I think it's exactly the opposite. Parents are harnessing new technologies to allow their children more freedom while at the same time providing them a safety net against the big bad world and/or a tether for making sure they don't stray into inappropriate behavior.
Posted by TV James (680 comments )
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RADAR - Mobile Watch Dog
An amazing pro-active use of technology to aid in the protection of children from on-line predators.
Posted by calarmax (1 comment )
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Another WOW!
An amazing follow-up AD from a "interested party"
Cripes.
Posted by sciontcya (643 comments )
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I'd kill my mom if I had this on my phone...
Of course I know how to hack Verizon's firmware on my Razr so it doesn't matter much. I play in bands and so there are a lot of random calls from random people and I'd be ineffective. Its a good step for those much much younger kids, but as a teenager, I'd be a bit annoyed. Sort of like AOL filters... good for small kids, not so good for teens. I can't believe that the 15 year old (same age as me) in the story didn't just leave the phone on the table... of course, with a blackberry I guess I would use it too ;)
Posted by limefan913 (129 comments )
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hey any chance you would help me figure out if my husbands cheating while hes out of town working? i would like to be able to log into his att wireless account online to see if i need a divorce im only 23 and to fine to waste my time. thankx
nikki00209@gmail.com
Posted by nikkie00209 (1 comment )
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How about teaching responsibility?
This seems a little ridiculous. Why don't these parents just teach their kids to have some personal responsibility? In past decades I believe teenagers (and younger kids) often had much more independence, and they turned out alright, without GPS trackers and their parents monitoring their phone calls.

If your kid is that dumb that if some wacko calls and he does whatever they say, or can't help racking up enormous bills sending dumb messages to friends, obviously he/she shouldn't have their own phone in the first place. This article doesn't make it clear if the parents had already talked about this program with their son, but if my parents had tried something like this behind my back I would be extremely angry and would probably choose not to use it.

The sad thing about the commercial exploitation of parents' legitimate concerns about their kids' safety is that it's grooming us to be a nation of sheeple (not that we aren't already there, in all likelihood). This is what happens when a generation grows up comfortable with tracking and electronic surveillance. The teenager in the article for example seemed happy and relieved to be "protected" like this. Being electronically monitored like this is touted as a good thing. In 10 years he and others like him probably will have no problem when the government, police, and employers become more and more intrusive. If the government mandates that the police have a right to know where everyone is at any time, it will be fine, since it's all for our protection...
Posted by jdbwar07 (150 comments )
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Common sense?
Am I the only one who thinks that instead of spying on their children, parents should just not let their children have cell phones if they're too immature to use them appropriately? It seems like common sense to me. Trust your kid, get him a phone, don't trust him, don't get him one. It's that simple. A piece of software is never going to replace capable parenting, no matter how much some people might wish it.
Posted by Jortibereal (32 comments )
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most of you sound like liberal tards. without progs like this one, you cant stop some boy from school sending pics of his dick to your daughter. Highschool kids are increasingly showing off their bodies.
Posted by xPHONICSx (1 comment )
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1.) It still won't stop him the first time.
2.) Don't tell me that you never did anything with your girlfriend when you were teenagers that you didn't want your parents to know about. Doing stupid things is part of the teenage years, and sheltering them instead of letting them make their own decisions makes the problem worse, in my opinion.
Posted by chgosoxfan (1 comment )
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And I though I'm exerting parental control by getting my 10 yr. old daughter a prepaid Net10 phone so she learns how to budget her phone use at an affordable price for me ($15/month). As a parent, I just make sure to teach my child the responsibility of owning a phone and I trust her judgement. So fair, its' been working well for us.
Posted by Aratcha (5 comments )
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Although we think it is more important to teach children responsibility, we still always worried my kids. My teeager has a BlackBerry and I have one as well. I installed a free version of GuardianWare BlackBerry on his cellphone and installed one paid version on mine. I can check his location whenever I feel necessary. My wife can check both of us with Outlook at her office.
Posted by geekyivan (1 comment )
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Monitoring software for parents, Power Spy, monitors your kids' Facebook activities on computers.
Posted by powerspysoftware (1 comment )
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Since when is knowing exactly what your child is up to regarding to electronic media "spying"? Some of the first few postings must come from teens who are up to no good because their parents aren't able to monitor their mobile/internet social activities. With this monitoring, I can parent my child. I may be able to tell if she is engaging in activity that are inappropriate and then talk to her and TEACH her that these communications (such as sexting or accepting strangers as FB friends) is not safe or healthy. That is what a parent does. Before this technology, parents talked to the children that were hanging out at their homes, got to know the people who had dealings with their children etc. Now with the social media that is out there, it is very hard to do this. My daughter has 400 people on her FB account (the one of the two accounts I know of); there is no way to check to see if my daughter is being approached by strangers or if my daughter is involved with sexting or any other inappropriate activities with out parental monitoring software. We live in a different world and parenting needs to evolve with it. So the haters out their of enabling parents to monitor their childrens' where abouts and social activities need to grow up!!!
Posted by Amebee74 (1 comment )
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Never understood why parents bring up the topic of watching the kids as "spying". Is that called "parenting"? It just so happens that technology today makes it much easier to hide activity. Why shouldn't parents do whatever they need to as necessary to keep their kids safe. In my opinion good parents separate themselves by communicating and not keeping things like this secret. My wife and I have been using CiiAll with our kids for a year (which they KNOW about). It's been very helpful for us.
Posted by bmsmith25 (1 comment )
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I have been using ciiall.com to check my kids text messages and gps location for years and it's a free app. Works great.
Posted by Mramm5 (1 comment )
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I've been using WhereGuard. It is a similar app but has some additional features (like alerts, maps, etc.) and is currently free (while in Beta). (whereguard.com)
Posted by TheBetterApp (1 comment )
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A really good app that I found is Phone Sheriff. There is nothing wrong with parents wanting to keep up with their kids, it keeps them safe. Check it out parents, you'll like it.
Posted by Ryan1394 (7 comments )
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I can understand why parents look to monitor their kids that are active on the internet. I hear that more and more parents are looking to software like Mobile Spy and Phone sheriff to learn what their kids are exposed to. I don't blame the parents, just looking after their kids.
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