Comments on: The problem with web anonymity

The web brings out the worst in people.

[botchagalupe]

Not that you need to hear it from me ... but you are one of the best bloggers out there. Some people are just idiots. My feeling is that if you disagree with a post then say why. just flaming someone is useless and not worth a reply.

botchagalupe (a.k.a. johnmwillis.com)

[Matt Asay]

I really appreciate that, John, especially since we have sometimes disagreed. It's nice to be able to disagree and still get along.

[Mam00th]

A lot of people are mean on the internet just because they can. The inteweb is like the old farwest, except that you can reincarnate as many time as you want. That's what makes it even worse then the farwest at times.

[j_brendel]

In order to keep discussion relevant, I routinely delete any comments on my blogs that contain any personal attacks or flames. Even if this attack is not directed against me, but against any other commenter or person. In civilized discussion there is no room at all for yelling, cursing or insults. Sure, moderating these things takes time, but it makes for a much more useful discourse.

You often bring up really good points in your blog, so it would be a shame if we would not be able to engage in a discussion after wards. So, it would be nice if you could continue to read our comments, even if it means having to delete or edit idiot postings.

[Matt Asay]

Thanks for the comments. Makes me feel better that I'm not alone. I am guilty of attacking people/companies online (Just ask Novell), but at least I do it under my real name, not a pseudonym. That accountability has more than once caused me to change my opinion when someone challenged me (not my pseudonym) on it, because I, as a person, care about accuracy, whereas I, as a pseudonym, may not. @j_brendel: I wish I could delete comments, but CNET has a policy against it. I was able to do so at InfoWorld and liked that better. I would sometimes email the posters and ask them if they wanted me to post their comment but with their real name. They never did.

[rcaden]

H3h wasn't anonymous. He referred to his web site (h3h.net) in another comment on CNET, and that site contains his real name, which is presumably how you got it.

Making an example out of him, simply because he posted a single rude comment you didn't like, makes you look like a noob.

To save you time, my name is Rogers Cadenhead.

[Matt Asay]

Thanks, Rogers. I don't follow him around CNET, tracking his comments (and don't have access to them except through the same tools you do). I found him on the web. I think I was clear about semi-anonymity in my post. The fact that I had to spend more than 3 seconds figuring out who he is proves my point.

[rcaden]

H3h wasn't anonymous. He referred to his web site (h3h.net) in another comment on CNET, and that site contains his real name, which is presumably how you got it.

Making an example out of him, simply because he posted a single rude comment you didn't like, makes you look like a noob.

To save you time, my name is Rogers Cadenhead.

[dirty55409]

I'm not being rude here at all, but posting a comment twice makes you look like a noob as well my friend :P

-Nikolas Armendariz

[Penguinisto]

Hey Matt? You're familiar with Gabriel's Greater Internet D**kwad Theory, yes? :) Chin Up!

[hoocares]

haha, love that. Thanks Peng

[kenneth.barber]

Opening your opinion up to a forum will always get positives/negatives ... can't please everyone as the song goes ... I think generally your about 80% on your posts - which is pretty good. Sure you sometimes get on your soapbox - but this is the nature of the blog and people should just deal with that. I read this blog as you seem to get a good summary & cross-section of 'stuff going on' that I would only get if I read 15 blogs. Personally, if I have a problem with your post - I post a constructive comment not a silly flame ... that way you get real feedback - and you get better at posting ... helps everyone right?

[akiba_freak]

Sorry Matt, but most of the readers of your blog are computer geeks (this is an open source blog right?) that like to debate about who's brain is bigger. With a wide readership, you should be expecting both ends of the spectrum (nice guys, real ********), and take comfort in the fact that the flames you see here are nothing compared to the ones you see on comp.os.linux or comp.lang.c . You're blog is very good and I, for one, enjoy reading it every single day.
Akiba - FreakLabs

[kiwibuntu]

One of the strengths of Ubuntu is the civility (enforced if necessary) of the community that goes with it.

[dirty55409]

I don't know kiwibuntu, I've seen some very mean comments from veteran linux guys verbally ransacking the new kids who are usually confused and have broken their computer lol. but yes the ubuntu community is civil for the most part.

[phendrics]

Matt...I've been an anonymous reader of your blog for several weeks now. I agree with what you say - it's amazing what some people will do when they think that nobody is looking or nobody knows who they are. I hope that you won't get discouraged by those people who show up here and make inflammatory remarks, just because they can.

[Renegade Knight]

Like everthing there is good and bad. Anonymity lets say what you really think. Think China or Cuba, where you can still love your country but want to see it reformed but saying as much can result in some very real consequenses even if 99% of everone agrees with you.

When I saw some under the board behavior at a place I worked I sent in a letter to the editor using someones elses name (they said ok) to preserve my anonymity and my job. They got death threats over the issue. This was local politics.

Yeah, people end up being jerks and that's bad. It doesn't remove anonymity's role though.

[TheStairMaster]

Word. im happy someone said it.

[Indn Maid]

Kola (kohLAH), a jerk is a jerk is a jerk; anonymity doesn't bring it out if it isn't already there. I think anonymity just morphs jerkhood. It seems to me we're seeing more people triggering off things than we used to, and things we didn't think would be such hot buttons for anyone, though. This said, I admit to being a privacy fanatic. But - "if" I'm going to take a hard shot at anyone, I have no problem telling them who I am, either. I work to limit my hard shots by subscribing to 3 teachings of my Elders - (1) Consider the source (of the remark) & rise above it. and (2) Some remarks are so stupid they don't deserve the dignity of further response. (3) is, "You should do an in-depth meditation on the old teaching that it is better to keep your mouth shut and have people think you're a fool, than to open it and remove any doubt". In my People's Way, we turn our backs and walk away on such dummies. Tougher to do on the Internet, but one way I use is to just quote (2) or (3) & go to someplace else. Besides, such boneheads show themselves for the tiny little people they are when they make such stupid remarks. When my grandchildren have pulled such behavior, I can always fall back on our Lakota Traditional approach and ask them, "WHERE is your respect??" WHERE IS your RESPECT?!?" Then go on to some other activity, saying nothing. Never fails, regardless of race.

[newe1344]

I'm sorry, there's not really a boxing gym near where I live so I berate others online to release pent up aggression I build at work. I blame my boss...

Mike
http://www.personalsidekick.com/

[G-hero47]

Dude your so right, this is the problem with talking to people on myspace, they will say really stupid things they normally wouldn't say because your not right there.

[dirty55409]

only commenting, anonymity, blogs etc. Does anyone think that, over time, this problem will get better or worse?? Granted the super-web is still a relatively "new" concept, and the technology behind it is growing and morphing at a frightening pace, will anonymity be a thing of the past? or is it our Civil Right to be jerks in the shadows? Great blog by the way Matt, I've felt that way a long time about jerk comments(not that the people are jerks, just their anonymous words)

[gcribner]

I agree with Renegade Knight's point. Also, there is the out of control PC environment that causes people to tow the PC line when anonymity is not an option . It does get very annoying when personal attacks arise instead of intelligent back and forth banter that may lead to enlightenment of the people reading the blog. I would prefer every blogger having the option to be anonymous, but be banned by a moderator if they keep personally attacking people.

[h3h]

My apologies for the earlier comment. I (and a few colleagues) completely missed the humor, likely because I'm not a regular reader of yours. Journalists who don't do proper research annoy me and I'd been more agitated than usual. Obviously that's not the case here and I misfired with my quick judgment. Mea culpa. Thanks for the benefit of the doubt.

[Matt Asay]

Thanks, Brad. Just keep in mind that I'm not a journalist - I'm a blogger. I don't mean that as a cop out, but it *does* mean that I'm more interested in getting ideas down on "paper," and figuring out what's true as we go along. I'm certainly not as smart as I'd like to be. I *do* appreciate you helping me be a bit smarter.