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Upon her retirement, Autodesk's Carol Bartz remains that rare exception, one that's becoming more rare all the time: the female CEO.
Upon her retirement, Autodesk's Carol Bartz remains that rare exception, one that's becoming more rare all the time: the female CEO.
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How many women CEO's are married with children? 2 out of 10? How many male CEO's are married with children? 8 out of 10? Amazing isn't it? When women vey for power in the corporate world, they usually have to give up any normal family life.
Most women are smarter than that.
1. have you surveyed women? most women i've spoken to strive for a career. many take a few years off in the early childhood years of their offspring but then avidly pursue careers afterwards. my wife has a bachelor's degree. i have a GED.
2. what makes you say men are not qualified in raising children. the only men not qualified to raise children are lazy ones. it's not that tough. it just takes patience, love and brains.
3. the reason there are so few married women with kids vs. men is history from the days when our "antediluvian knuckle dragger" forefathers took the bible so seriously and held women back with their whole "women are less than men so you stay home and cook me dinner slave" mentality. women are just starting to overcome that stupid mentality. to make your stats look even stupider, compare how many women CEO's are married with kids in 2005 vs. 1985 vs. 1965 vs. 1945.
4. women don't have to give up a normal family life to have a good career. there are many women who run small businesses and manage a family well too. we have a support vendor for our MAS90 accounting software who OWNS a company and still has plenty of time for her family while her male employees do all the grunt work.
think before you post.
1.) In various companies where I have worked there seems to be about a 5-1 ratio of employmed men to women. Looking at the college graduation rates for IT related degrees, there are simply an overwhelming majority of men entering the work force in IT. This isn't necessarily the IT industry or the colleges keeping women out. The entrance into college IT programs by women are not as high as men. This is not a knock on women, it's just women have different interests and priorities than men and are not as willing to become corporate ****** as men.
2.) Being a father myself and knowing many fathers, women just do a better job at taking care of kids needs. This doesn't mean that men don't do a good job. It's in the genes as a result of thousands of years of evolution. Science has shown evidence to back this.
3.) Working as a parent in any field that takes up most of the day means not spending as much time with family and the kids. Sacrifices have to be made by parents who want to work. There is no debating this. Again, this comes down to priorities. Which is more important: work or kids?
This is why the family model of one parent (mother or father) working and one parent (mother or father) staying at home has worked well. When both parents work, the children do not get as much time with parents and these children often have issues.
But, back on topic to the original article. There are many more reasons than "the system keeping women out" that are far more relative.
Chuck
But seriously, while I agree that women do have to make more sacrifices than men to achieve senior position, this empahatically does not mean than some men are very well qualified to bring up children. Why not judge each person based upon their own merits and not on their genitals?
oh and antidisestablishmentarianism too.
that men spend a lot more time trying to define what women are
good at and what they are supposed to do, than women spend
trying to define what men are good at and are supposed to do.
I think men ought to start spending that time figuring out what
men are good at, and let women get on with figuring out what
women are good at.
How about we don't dictate to you and you don't dictate to us?
How about we accept you as equals, and welcome you to try out
our traditional areas of work and you accept us as equals, and
welcome us to try out your traditional areas of work?
Maybe, if we accepted each other without prejudice, men would
bring new and valuable insights to childcare and other
"womanly" areas, and women would bring new and valuable
insights to "manly" areas.
Maybe then we could truly become partners, as we need to be.
Only a few techies are able to rise to CEO levels.
Some of those will prefer to have a life.
(CEOs must live for the job)
So of the small pool of tech savy, hard drivers
Some can get pregnant.
That will take a 6 weeks+ out of a career.
Few CEOs can take 6 week leaves.
Let alone really care for children.
I write this with my wife as a stay at home
mom, and eagar to go home and play with my kids.
I won't be a CEO.
I pity the children of a CEO, esp a CEO mother.
- Everybody's Different
- by erixgirl86 January 2, 2007 7:58 PM PST
- About this whole thing, everybody's different. I'd prefer to stay at home with my family, but yet I wouldn't want them to go without a roof over their heads. I wouldn't want my children emotionally deprived either, hence why it's best to have one parent figure close to the children while the other's away. Look and see how children have grown with one parent at home, and see how they did with none(unless you count a babysitter). If women want to work part time(or not at all)so they have more time with family, go for it. If they do want to persue larger careers, go for it too. some people are built where they can balance many things at once. Again, Everybody's different.
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