Spyware abuse includes domestic abuse says McAfee
On Thursday, the Anti-Spyware Coalition will meet in Washington. Included will be experts from McAfee, Google, and the Pew Internet & American Life project to discuss the latest in spyware trends. In addition to the well-known damage caused by spyware--hawking advertising, stealing passwords, and slowing down PCs--McAfee is calling attention to a little known aspect of spyware: domestic abuse.
"Using spyware for surveillance in cases of domestic abuse is a serious matter," says Anna Stepanov, who manages the Anti-Spyware program at McAfee Avert Labs. She's written a report titled Spyware: A Morphing Campaign (in PDF), which chronicles recent spyware trends including domestic abuse. "Monitoring a victim's online, cell phone, or general computing activity is of more value than ever in controlling or hurting a victim."
The National Network to End Domestic Violence offers these computer use tips to protect against such abuse.
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After I left him, I found out he was intercepting my emails, probably with a copy of everything I sent going to his work email address.
I followed my intuition on this and it turned out to be correct. So it does happen.
I also was suspicious of him having installed keystroke identification software on my PC, so I was sure to change all my passwords to my bank accounts etc., on my friends PC a few days before I left him.