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October 22, 2007 6:05 AM PDT

Why you need to take risks

by Steve Tobak

According to the U.S. Department of Labor, 4 of the top 10 and 9 of the top 25 in-demand jobs over the next ten years are in technology fields. We're talking software engineers, engineering managers, IT managers, network and systems analysts and administrators, all kinds of technology jobs.

It's hard to argue with the fed's data. Bubble and burst cycles aside, technology fields have been good to us all, and that's not likely to change anytime soon. That means that a good chunk of CNET's audience probably won't be hurting for employment for the foreseeable future.

That's all good, right? Well, sort of.

If your current job is all you aspire to, all you're passionate about, all you've spent your life dreaming about, then great, you've hit the jackpot. Have a happy life and don't look back.

If, on the other hand, you feel unfulfilled some or most of the time, then I have a message for you. You're playing it too safe. You need to take more risks.

In my experience, the single biggest factor holding people like you back from fulfilling their dreams is unwillingness to take risks.

I've seen it a hundred times and I've heard every excuse imaginable: I don't want to work those kinds of hours, it's not good to jump companies so much, what if I fail, what if I succeed, I lack confidence, how do I know if I'm capable, it's outside of my comfort zone, I'm not this enough or I'm not that enough.

All those excuses have one common denominator: fear. You can make all the excuses you want, but if you're not happy and won't go for it, it's fear that's holding you back. Plain and simple.

Look, technical and engineering folks are typically a conservative lot. And that's a good quality to have. But you only live once, and if you wake up in the morning and go to bed at night feeling like there's got to be more to this life, then you're being too conservative.

And just for the record, I was a technical guy, I had excuses, I was afraid. My father worked for the post office, for God's sake. Talk about a conservative upbringing. I was there. I know of what I speak. I didn't come up with this stuff for a blog post; I came up with it for myself, a long time ago.

This isn't a do as I say, not as I do message. I walked the talk.

You know why I'm confident that risk-taking is good for you? Because, my interpretation of the Labor Department's data is that you've got the biggest safety net of all time under you. Use it.

The American dream is out there waiting for you. And we're not just talking about compensation, buying toys, living comfortably, financial independence, or providing for loved ones. We're talking about personal fulfillment and the pursuit of happiness. We're talking about going to bed eagerly anticipating what the morning will bring. We're talking about waking up when you're 70 or 80 and knowing that you lived a full life, that you gave it your best shot.

If you try and fail, that's okay. At least you tried. What more can you ask of yourself? The only true failure is failing to try. Regret is a bitter pill to swallow, my friends. I've seen it. Trust me; you don't want to go that route.

Here's the bottom line:
It's okay to be afraid. It's normal, human. Bravery is being afraid but doing the right thing anyway. Be brave. Believe in yourself. Take risks. Face your fear and don't look back. The safety net is there, just in case. But you know what? I don't think you're going to need it.

Originally posted at Train Wreck
Steve Tobak is managing partner of Invisor Consulting LLC. He is a member of the CNET Blog Network, and is not an employee of CNET. Disclosure.
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A person with 15 years of I.T. absolutely agrees
by WildSignals October 22, 2007 7:37 AM PDT
Each time you take a risk, you have one less major thing in life to fear, PLUS, you have all the knowledge from what you tried. For me, in the I.T. field, I have been successful at those risks most of the time.

The end result for me has been that my skills and dwindling fear have created job security. Companies get bought or downsize or hire consultants. Putting your job security in one firm, is very unwise. And it's unnecessary.

Your security should be in your skills, in your experience, and in yourself. If you don't take risks, you'll never attain the expertise, knowledge, and courage that those bring.

Fear is a powerful drug, overcome it and you feel like you can do anything.
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I agree - no risk = no reward.
by proadventurer October 23, 2007 1:11 PM PDT
I was an IT manager for a large retain mfg. I hated it. I jumped off the boat (due to all the rats). Now I own two non-tech related businesses. It's nice not to need to hire an IT staff though.
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I'm starting up a website
by darwinw October 24, 2007 2:23 PM PDT
I couldn't agree more. It's great to live in such an era. So I'm starting up my own website www.tripntale.com and hope that it will take off
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i agree with what you say.
by nanjingnow October 30, 2007 9:11 AM PDT
The only true failure is failing to try. Regret is a bitter pill to swallow, my friends. I've seen it. Trust me; you don't want to go that route.
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