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Youth centers grapple with MySpace

By Stefanie Olsen
Staff Writer, CNET News.com
Published: June 23, 2006 4:00 AM PDT

In something out of a modern-day "West Side Story," two teenagers from rival schools used MySpace after school at the local Boys and Girls Club of America to "cyberbully" other kids.

So six months ago, the club, located in San Francisco's Mission District, decided to ban member access to the popular social network in the hope of thwarting threats of violence among teens on their personal MySpace pages.

"A lot of tension was being brought to our facility due to that," said Leticia Barajas, director of the Columbia Park club in San Francisco, which is one unit of about 4,000 independently operated clubs around the United States.

Several other BGCA around the San Francisco Bay Area have banned MySpace too in recent months.

All that banning is, surprisingly, OK with MySpace's top security executive. Hemanshu Nigam, who was hired in May to be chief security officer of News Corp.-owned MySpace. Nigam responded to the news by saying that the company endorses setting policies that let students explore the Web responsibly and safely.

"In our view, how that's done should be left up to each individual community and we make ourselves available to help them find that balance," he wrote in an e-mail.

"We banned it and then we realized that the kids were going to go on somewhere else, so we kind of decided to let the teens go on while they're here, and understand how to be safe on it."
--Reena Burton, education and tech director, downtown San Francisco BGCA

That BGCA club joined other community centers, school districts, and most likely some parents, in the same decision to forbid kids from using MySpace, which has as many as 70 million members and as many as 14 million under the age of 18. The reasons cited are often echoed: because kids can use the site to bully or harass each other, waste time, or fall victim to predators with too much access to their personal information.

Even Congress has weighed in. Rep. Michael Fitzpatrick (R-Pa.) has proposed the Deleting Online Predators Act, which would require schools receiving federal funds to ban social networks such as MySpace.

But at other BGCA clubs, MySpace has touched off a debate less black and white. Some technology directors say that the hazards of social networks are often possible with or without the Internet or networking sites. And if kids are determined to visit MySpace, they'll find a way, perhaps without adult supervision. According to one line of thought, by allowing access to the site, community tech directors have an opportunity to supervise kids and teach them the etiquette and skills necessary for their futures in a high-tech world.

"Here they have to be 14 to go on MySpace (which is the site's policy) and they're supervised at all times. Otherwise, they'll sneak and go somewhere to use it where they're not supervised," said Manny Oronsaye, the technical director at another BGCA in San Francisco, which has not banned the site.

Reena Burton, education and tech director at BGCA in a downtown San Francisco neighborhood known as the Tenderloin, reversed her decision to ban MySpace for the same reason.

"We banned it and then we realized that the kids were going to go on somewhere else, so we kind of decided to let the teens go on while they're here, and understand how to be safe on it," Burton said.

Whatever the case, MySpace has lodged itself in the American teen psyche much the way Pong or Donkey Kong did in earlier decades. That's why it has caused consternation among parents, educators and now community centers, which are aiming, in part, to teach kids about computers and the Internet that they might not otherwise have access to, but without putting them in harm's way.

Meanwhile, MySpace is trying to assuage worries and mitigate hazards to kids by installing stiffer security and privacy controls on its site. Earlier this week, the company said it would enact controls that restrict how teens older than 18 can communicate with members younger than 16, for example.

Brian Hill, a representative at the BGCA headquarters in Atlanta, said that the organization's mission is to provide a safe place for kids online and offline. But because each club is independently owned and operated, it does not have policy mandates or specific information about how each club is handling social-network issues. Still, BGCA does offer guidance to its various units.

"We do provide a Web site, YNet, which is public and secure. It is fully monitored by adult staff to ensure proper behavior," Hill said.

The secure youth site, which offers chat services and bulletin boards, verifies membership among kids before allowing social networking features. It launched late last year.

"This is our little way to give them social networking features," Hill added.

As for Columbus Park BGCA, Barajas said that it is currently scouting around for technology to block access to MySpace and is planning a meeting this summer with local parents to educate them about MySpace usage.

"If kids are using MySpace at clubs, at home is where they're creating their pages," she said.

Send insights or tips on this topic to stefanie.olsen@cnet.com.

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How about NOT having a myspace?
Simply not having a myspace account might cut down on bullying?

its like kids dont know what to do without it. go outside!
Posted by stuff a dank 1 (4 comments )
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good idea!
Let's see if we can get them to copmpletely give up the phone too. I'm guessing our success rate would be about the same.

More seriously, I got bullied a lot in school. If you think going outside is going to limit bullying you're painfully mistaken. I'd rather deal with online insults then face-to-face insults that might include getting beat up too.
Posted by retiredgamer (5 comments )
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No Myspace
MySpace has become nothing more than a place for people to create online profiles, make friends, and communicate via the internet. Making friends has become an important aspect of life and a valuable tool to being successful in the American lifestyle. Before MySpace, you had to go out to meet people... Face to Face. As people (primarily young teens) began downloading music, videos, and performing other daily tasks that required an internet connection, they needed a means to connect with other individuals in order to communicate seamlessly while performing these tasks. MySpace has indeed succeeded in providing the masses with an available means for this, but when is it enough?
I personally believe that resources such as this are creating a distraction for our youth. People check MySpaces more often than I have ever seen in my life. I have been involved in communication technologies since I can remember. I was one of the many who would save AOL cds, use my internet time sparingly, grab as many as I could from store displays and load up again until they added their pay by check feature where you HAD to enter some kind of payment info in order to complete the registration process. Technologies grew because there was someone there to explore them. At one time, the internet was seen for what it was truly intended for, the greatest resource mankind has ever seen.
We need to educate these youth on the rich content that can be discovered, the tasks that can be performed, the technologies that lie beneath and how they can be utilized to their full extent driving innovation to further milestones. These kids are SMART, whos going to guide them?

&thats my rant.
Posted by jerrymerfeld (13 comments )
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Finally some hope!
It sounds like people are finally starting to respond to social networking sites maturely and responsibly. Bravo to those who have already realized banning something that's so highly desired might not be the best solution to the problems.
Posted by retiredgamer (5 comments )
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My point exactly. We are stripping life and consequence out of these people. Someone needs to address it. Social Networking is not in any way chatting via MySpace, Instant Messaging Services, or even IRC. Those are communication mediums, not Social Networking... how social is looking at the text of someone else. Social Networking needs to be re-defined in our society. Children and even adults purchase files to help them in their online adventures with these stupid video games, hundreds of hours are WASTED performing tasks such as these. I'm only 21 years old... it is SAD to see what this technology is doing to our personalities. Theres no excuse.

People need to not forget how to communicate in person. Kids are going to have troubles communicating in the real world. I would have to say that 99% of interviews in the American culture are primarily focused on personality tests. Why? Because people are extracting there personalities and posting them on MySpace, chatting them away... its becoming their PRIMARY source of contact "."
Posted by jerrymerfeld (13 comments )
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yeah bravo!!!
hell yes! don't let them take away myspace.
Posted by LiciousLicious (1 comment )
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good for the comm centers
Activty and community centers are places parent trust their children to get development opportunities whether they be tutoring, dance lessons, basketball or theatre. They're not places where their kids should become online social butterflies <a class="jive-link-external" href="http://www.iwantmyess.com/?p=64" target="_newWindow">http://www.iwantmyess.com/?p=64</a> to pitter their time away or be preyed upon by pedophiles
Posted by marileev (292 comments )
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Good job!
..Reena Burton! Looks like they're actually quoting somebody with a tech background this time. Parents should start asking US what we think they should do instead of ignorant congressmen who doesn't have a grasp of the technology.
Posted by lewissalem (167 comments )
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Just ban access to it
C'mon folks, try to use some common sense. If you have a problem, then do something to eliminate it. There are plenty of other productive things to do other than MySpace.
<a class="jive-link-external" href="http://www.techknowcafe.com/content/view/544/42/" target="_newWindow">http://www.techknowcafe.com/content/view/544/42/</a>
Posted by mystereojones (46 comments )
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Futile Efforts
The more adults try to grapple with us kids freedom, the more we will circumvent it. We can use proxy servers, boot the computer up in safe mode and delete crucial parental control files, and many other hacks. The point is, if a kid thinks hes smart enough to be safe enough in the online world, let him. If he(or she) is safe, good for him. If not, thats his own fault. Its your job as a parent to teach him right from wrong, and you do that by talking to him, not letting a computer program be a parent. Kids are holding more and more spite against parents nowadays.
Hogiaus- age 14
Posted by hogiaus (4 comments )
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MySpace needs to apply content control!
I love the part about banning it, but then unbanning it because she thinks kids will just find other ways of getting on MySpace. I guess while she is at it, she should probably provide private rooms for the kids as well, lest they be forced to go somewhere else to have sex, and she can make sure they are provided with condoms and proper instruction to be sure they know how to do it safely. That is ridiculous!

MySpace needs to step up here. MySpace needs to apply parental and content controls.

Have you seen some of the trash on MySpace? If not, just poke around. You will find barely clothed, trampy, teens being as nasty and foul as they can, playing songs with extremely lude and vulgar lyrics, and more.

Ultimately, PARENTS need to be the controls here. Teens need to be taught that acting like this on the net is not just really poor taste, it's extremely poor judgement.

When was the last time you monitored your kids' activities on the net? Maybe it's time to start, before you find yourself regretting that you didn't teach your teen better, and saved them from their own stupidity.

I blogged more about this at <a class="jive-link-external" href="http://www.projectnetsafe.com" target="_newWindow">http://www.projectnetsafe.com</a>

-Jim
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cAn SoMeOnE hElP mE wItH tHiS nEw MySpAcE!!!
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