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Keeping an eye on MySpace

By Stefanie Olsen
Staff Writer, CNET News.com
Published: June 29, 2006 4:00 AM PDT

Alex Strand, a 24-year-old techie, got the idea for parent-friendly software to monitor kids' MySpace profiles in March, following a battery of negative news that painted the social network as a haven for child stalkers and clueless kids.

Strand's site MySpacewatch.com is like a search engine, as he calls it, that alerts users to changes in MySpace member profiles, their log-in history and any comments posted to a particular page via RSS. For access to stats on one MySpace profile, the service is free. Keeping tabs on up to five profiles costs $6.

Far from a hearty business--Strand says it has only 3,800 members, 30 of which pay--it seems to be more of a social experiment.

"I started it as being a way for parents to check out what their kids are doing in a good way," Strand, a self-described "consultant," said in a phone interview. "I've gotten a lot of strange parents, too, that use it as a way (to monitor kids) instead of talking to their kids, which I think is backwards."

Half of MySpacewatch members are parents, Strand estimates, while the other half are primarily people who monitor a friend's MySpace profiles, or their own. Despite some worry that MySpacewatch is used by predators to watch kids pages, Strand said he "would hope not, but realistically, I don't know."

However, he pointed out that the site does not provide any more information than what people can already access on MySpace. And MySpace's new safety controls, which restrict pages of kids under 16 from access by older people, would naturally bar rogue members. The safety controls even bar parents from viewing their child's page, according to Strand, who has gotten several requests from parents to hack into private pages.

"I always tell parents, 'I'm not trying to circumvent that,'" he said. If they ask, which they have, "My position is like, 'You're crazy.' If you do that for a parent, then any weirdo out there can use it for the same reason."

"I've gotten a lot of strange parents, too, that use it as a way (to monitor kids) instead of talking to their kids, which I think is backwards."
-- Alex Strand, consultant, MySpacewatch.com

Still, plenty of tools are cropping up to monitor usage on MySpace. A service called Chatchecker recently added tools that let parents snoop on kids using MySpace instant messaging. Among its services are e-mail alerts to "dangerous conversations" in IM that include specific words. Still, many kids use acronyms or specially constructed language in their conversations with the knowledge that their parents might be watching.

Strand may run into some trouble with his project. Another MySpace-watch service called KidQuery.com closed after one of the engineers realized it could violate the terms of service of MySpace, which restricts other services from crawling and lifting data from its network. And recently, a site called Singlestat.us, which displayed member profiles from MySpace users that were listed as single, received a cease-and-desist letter from the company. Singlestat.us promptly shut off its service.

"I'm just waiting for the cease-and-desist letter," Strand joked, quickly clarifying that's not what he wants.

Face-off with Facebook

Meanwhile, more schools have out and out barred social networks from their campuses.

The latest is Kent State, which has banned student athletes from posting profiles on Facebook--the most popular social network on college campuses. The athletic department has reportedly given students until Aug. 1 to remove their profiles.

The reason? The school was concerned with protecting its image--at least one student athlete had posted a shirtless photo of himself holding a Miller Lite. The school says it also wants to shield students from over-eager fans or predators who might extract personal information from their profiles.

But that mandate might not go over well with free-speech advocates or students, many of whom have grown accustomed to giving out their Facebook name, in lieu of a phone number or e-mail address.

(As many as 75 percent of college students have used Facebook, according to the company.)

Earlier incidences at colleges including Elon University in North Carolina, and Loyola and Northwestern Universities in Chicago have prompted those athletic departments to restrict use of Facebook. Elon University, which was founded by the United Church of Christ, crafted rules against posting photos online after pictures of its men's baseball team dressed in women's underwear surfaced on Facebook, and then resurfaced on Badjocks.com, a sports gossip site.


Teachers Talk Tech

While colleges are dealing with a little too much technology, grammar schools and high schools can't seem to get enough.

According to an annual survey issued this week, 50 percent of U.S. teachers said that they would integrate technology into the daily curriculum if it weren't for time and budget constraints, as well as lack of access to reliable technology. Elementary school teachers were more pressed for time, while middle and high school teachers said they just didn't have the technology on hand, according to the survey, called Teachers Talk Tech.

The study, conducted by software company CDW Government in partnership with a Scholastic subsidiary, drew on interviews with 1,000 K-12 teachers from around the country.

The majority of the teachers said they believed technology was key to engaging students and improving their performance--and that technology-aided lesson plans would prepare kids for future careers in the 21st century. Despite that, only 37 percent of instructors said they use technology in the classroom daily. Sixty-seven percent said that they involve technology in the classroom three times a week, however.

"Today's students already know how to operate computers; they blog, they text message, they have their own Web sites. We want to help students and teachers see technology as a means to improve learning and performance," said Chris Rother, a group vice president of CDW-G, a unit of CDW that sells software for the classroom.

Send insights or tips on this topic to stefanie.olsen@cnet.com.

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Where are the parents?
When are parents going to be held responsible for their kid's action? There's something wrong when parents are relying on a complete stranger's "program" to babysit their kids.
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Posted by mystereojones (46 comments )
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Mondern Era Parenting...tech-no-parents...
Parents have used tv, video games, the public school system, malls, local rec centers, swimming pools, probation officers and any other device that happens to keep their kids out of their hair and responsibility and a means of a babysitter for years, so why not a computer program to help sluff off being held accountable what their kids can and can't do on the internet...make sense to me, new era new age new device!

And not only when are parents going to be held accountable for what their kids do but how about their kids go thru and live to bring them to the point of doing some of the ill behaviors they might try....?

You mean when a parent is resting peacefully in bed the slumber of their nice warm bed, and for the 15th time in 6 months....at age 14....that parent should just be able to throw up their hands and go..."well I just don't know why he/she is acting this way" ....uh-huh...no clue or idea at all! Or...maybe they just need to forced to focus and think a little harder for day or two...

No such thing as a perfect parent...and every child/teen makes mistakes, that's just part of learning. But I see on a daily basis a crap load of kids growing up with no parenting or guidance at all....and then they end up in the court system, and the parents just get to say.."well see, I'm not the only one who knew they were headed for trouble" .....

C'mon folks, let's start pulling parents to their feet, off their dead butts and holding them to the standards of being real parents, good with the bad, evil with the saints, like it or not...when you took on being a parent, you took on a big chore, now get the job done right.

If they don't have the answer, take them parents by the hand to find the answer...Don't lay it back on the school and court systems to take care of it for them, that's what they want.

so I guess mystereojones, I totally agree with you on that! lol just hits a nerve with me..parents looking for more "out" of their responsibilities....


p.s. yep, I'm a parent...23 years...6 kids...
Posted by Jules_b95 (2 comments )
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Mondern Era Parenting...tech-no-parenting...
Parents have used tv, video games, the public school system, malls, local rec centers, swimming pools, probation officers and any other device that happens to keep their kids out of their hair and responsibility and a means of a babysitter for years, so why not a computer program to help sluff off being held accountable what their kids can and can't do on the internet...make sense to me, new era new age new device!

And not only when are parents going to be held accountable for what their kids do but how about their kids go thru and live to bring them to the point of doing some of the ill behaviors they might try....?

You mean when a parent is resting peacefully in bed the slumber of their nice warm bed, and for the 15th time in 6 months....at age 14....that parent should just be able to throw up their hands and go..."well I just don't know why he/she is acting this way" ....uh-huh...no clue or idea at all! Or...maybe they just need to forced to focus and think a little harder for day or two...

No such thing as a perfect parent...and every child/teen makes mistakes, that's just part of learning. But I see on a daily basis a crap load of kids growing up with no parenting or guidance at all....and then they end up in the court system, and the parents just get to say.."well see, I'm not the only one who knew they were headed for trouble" .....

C'mon folks, let's start pulling parents to their feet, off their dead butts and holding them to the standards of being real parents, good with the bad, evil with the saints, like it or not...when you took on being a parent, you took on a big chore, now get the job done right.

If they don't have the answer, take them parents by the hand to find the answer...Don't lay it back on the school and court systems to take care of it for them, that's what they want.

so I guess mystereojones, I totally agree with you on that! lol just hits a nerve with me..parents looking for more "out" of their responsibilities....


p.s. yep, I'm a parent...23 years...6 kids...
Posted by Jules_b95 (2 comments )
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its Technology/so treat it that way.
I think its about the abuse of things that Modems carry so much trouble..I remember getting my first Car(auto)and how Cool it was to "spin" the rear tires..
I think technology and its Internet has a serious Highway to manage on the merits of respect for others..instead the "easy" money has wandered into a position..its one of those OPEN DOOR Policies that have allowed the grasp to slip..like the Video Game/its a disgusting mess..
What to do:about the PC..??
Is what is done considering the acts we wield on others..
Like when I would "spin" my rear tires the NOISE would be deafening/
So as in Internet Traffic that only emboldens poor manners and foul language we all get a nasty taste of one man's freedom/
What's the way to go:where No Man Has Gone Before..??
I would quess partly true..the Starship was named ENTERPRISE..I quess that explains some things/the rest is all about taking the proper CONTROL..considering..Out There-somewhere.
Posted by castingRod47 (19 comments )
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I signed up on myspacewatch a few years ago to watch one person. I no longer need this service, but whenever I log on I get the message that I do not have permission to access this site. What is going on? All I want to do is cancel the service. Any advice would be appreciated.
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